I really don't get people complaining about not being able to drink while you're pregnant. If this is your first you're about to realize there are ALL SORTS of things you aren't going to be able to do for a while after the baby comes. Just suck it up - you decided to have a baby- it's worth it.
And before some pregnant chick tries to tell me I don't know what I'm talking about, I'm pregnant too...with my second child. So I've got a pretty good idea.
Angel, very sorry about your loss. I know how very heartbreaking that can be. Will keep you in my thoughts for a positive outcome next time.