I spent the red river showdown in Dallas with my bestie and her boyfriend. The tab was never separated and I definitely let it known to him that I'll buy the next round but he'd go ahead and buy us another round even when I literally didn't want one. Drinks just kept coming. Now i got a text to Zelle money to her boyfriend. That's fine and I did but I will say, if that was my significant other, i would have said, hell no you're not asking her to reimburse you 50 bucks. It would be a turn off for me. Thoughts? Can't wait to hear them!

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Oh damn. I can't edit now!!

Oh well! This will be fun!!

And I know I probably cost him more than 50 bucks as that was probably just food alone

Oh my gosh, why can I not just delete this and start over?

Just stop!! I'm cracking up

Yikes!

In his drunken state, he did mention it a couple of times and we both just laughed, but maybe there was some truth in it you men are gross

Needless to say, I don't think this is the right man for her, but I sent him money and all is well. And definitely will not be going out with the two of them again.

bobcat90 said:

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Needless to say, I don't think this is the right man for her, but I sent him money and all is well. And definitely will not be going out with the two of them again.

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Why were you with them like a 3rd wheel? Didn't you take your boyfriend?

He wasn't in town. She asked me to join them, but I can see your perspective. He didn't and probably didn't want me to!

Depends on who invited you.

If your GF invited you then as the guy I would have just had separate tabs from the start.

However nowadays girls have become very bad at inviting their besties on "dates" and then expecting the guy to pay for them to have a girl's night out with him along as little more than the wallet. So he might have thought this was a test and felt pressured into trying to look like a baller and then regretted it later.

Could be that he is just a little thoughtless and it seems like ur bestie is too. What an awkward situation to invite you in on! That being said you didn't have to go and you probably should have stayed home. It doesn't sound like you are overly fond of this guy and combine that with being a third wheel and just an awkward situation all around.

However what you and alot of women fail to realize is that men feel social pressure and stigma, especially from women to cover the check. He probably felt that pressure, and under the influence of alcohol figured he would cover the tab, got the bill later and had a moment of sober clarity.

Either that or he hoped with enough alcohol he could convince yall to let him ride the tricycle and then when that didn't happen didn't want to foot the bill for ur night of partying.

The whole thing seems awkward from start to finish. Why would you have gone put with ur beastie and her BF without ur BF being present?

The dude sounds like a possible sleeze but it was ill advised for you to go in the first place. And to be frank, I don't see why you thought it was a good idea to go.

Chill. It's was to watch the red river shoot out in a sports bar in Dallas. It wasn't like i was joining them on a formal date. I never got the chance to take my credit card out bc he'd go to the bar and close out or order another round bf i even knew but id shout out to him more than once that id get the next round. Just asking to get feels out there.

That episode was the best

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Freeeeeee to beeeeeeee Tricia Marie you see you see

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Salllllllllllllll

And this is why women in relationships should never hang out with women that are single.

Ags4DaWin said:

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got the bill later and had a moment of sober clarity.

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Kind of like post nut clarity?

My wife wouldn't have asked you to pay, but she might have asked you to stay!