Do you still feel like your daughter belongs to you or does she belong to her husband? Does the decision change depending on how long they've been married?
Those of you old enough to have a married daughter
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Last: 8 yr ago by cr0wbar
Belong to you? What are you, muslim?
Trouble with one of your hooker's dads?
She still calls me Daddy and she will always be my Princess. Never gonna change.
My daughters belong to themselves.
I expect my married daughter's loyalty to be to her husband before me.
I expect my married daughter's loyalty to be to her husband before me.
Pretty astonishing this is even a question. This guy honestly thinks he gets the say in her life over the partner she chose to spend the rest of her life with? Guy must be a fantastic father in law...Dad-O-Lot said:
My daughters belong to themselves.
I expect my married daughter's loyalty to be to her husband before me.
She sill calls me Daddy, she's still my little girl, but she is first and foremost my son in law's wife.
The caveat should probably be if the guy beats her or something like that. Then it is time for Dad to step in and take matters into his own hands!
Depends on the quality of goats the son-in-law gave in exchange for her.
Her husband paid me a substantial amount of money to marry her, so she definitely belongs to him now. He has a receipt and everything.
This is a Bombay thread??Beer Baron said:
Depends on the quality of goats the son-in-law gave in exchange for her.
Once she's married, she's that poor schmuck's problem.
We're talking about women in terms of ownership so, yeah pretty much.Buddy Sorrell said:This is a Bombay thread??Beer Baron said:
Depends on the quality of goats the son-in-law gave in exchange for her.
typical gay mafia. Doesn't even understand how a dowry works.Beer Baron said:
Depends on the quality of goats the son-in-law gave in exchange for her.
Whatever I just buy my women at Costco by the dozen anyway.blindey said:typical gay mafia. Doesn't even understand how a dowry works.Beer Baron said:
Depends on the quality of goats the son-in-law gave in exchange for her.
I don't think you actually "own" them but a husband/father definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife/daughters life. When it comes to most big choices (dating, college/major choice, career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) this are decision that ultimately lie with the father/husband).
Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I don't think you actually "own" them but a husband/father definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife/daughters life. When it comes to most big choices (dating, college/major choice, career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) this are decision that ultimately lie with the father/husband).
No. They aren't. As her father you can offer opinions or advice if she asks for it, but "having say" in the final decision? My goodness.
When you're talking about the relationship with your spouse big decisions are made in conjunction with a spouse, it doesn't solely lie with "the man." I mean, if that's your arrangement and it works for you then more power to you, but it's pretty odd thinking.
This has to be a troll, right?
Why would the father have a say in any of these? Is he paying for the school she is going to and any large purchases she will ever have in her life?Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I don't think you actually "own" them but a husband/father definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife/daughters life. When it comes to most big choices (dating, college/major choice, career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) this are decision that ultimately lie with the father/husband).
What?? You must live on Pluto man. How about the situation where she loses her virginity? do you get a say in that too?Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I don't think you actually "own" them but a husband/father definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife/daughters life. When it comes to most big choices (dating, college/major choice, career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) this are decision that ultimately lie with the father/husband).
I was mixing father and husband responsibilities for simplicity. Some will be exclusive to just the father or husband (like the father choose or approving her college major).
Dude, you aren't even trying.Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I don't think you actually "own" them but a husband/father definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife/daughters life. When it comes to most big choices (dating, college/major choice, career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) this are decision that ultimately lie with the father/husband).
Or do you have syphilis brain?
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Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Sounds like she is your problem still and you've gained a new one.
Bayside Tiger Ag said:
a husband definitely have a significant amount of say in a wife's life. When it comes to most big choices (career, staying home with kids, large purchases, having kids, etc) these are decisions that ultimately lie with my daughter as she receives equal input and direction from her husband because that is the natural order of things. She made vows to him of her own free will. I just donated sperm and college tuition
FIFY also the grammar was god awful.
So the father is paying for her college and she is taking out zero loans?Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I was mixing father and husband responsibilities for simplicity. Some will be exclusive to just the father or husband (like the father choose or approving her college major).
My BIL literally paid his in-laws a good amount of money to marry their daughter. And her parents still try to control everything she does. But of course this is a really extreme/odd case. I don't know many dads who would expect to be "in charge" of their daughter after she's married.
I don't talk to my father and I'm not married. Oh no! I don't belong to anyone.
I cleaved unto your mom last night.Cromagnum said:Quote:
Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Sounds like she is your problem still and you've gained a new one.
i will never let some perverted bastage take my daughter's hand in marriage. men are disgusting pigs.
Story time!!!Agoodlittleag04 said:
My BIL literally paid his in-laws a good amount of money to marry their daughter. And her parents still try to control everything she does. But of course this is a really extreme/odd case. I don't know many dads who would expect to be "in charge" of their daughter after she's married.
Pirate04 said:
I don't talk to my father and I'm not married. Oh no! I don't belong to anyone.
You belong to us!!!
Wade Winston Wilson said:So the father is paying for her college and she is taking out zero loans?Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I was mixing father and husband responsibilities for simplicity. Some will be exclusive to just the father or husband (like the father choose or approving her college major).
That would be assumed. Obviously if she's paying her own way that would be her choice.
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You belong to us!!!
LOL. Bravo, sir. But I thing the gig is up. Troll, troll, troll.Bayside Tiger Ag said:
I was mixing father and husband responsibilities for simplicity. Some will be exclusive to just the father or husband (like the father choose or approving her college major).
Bayside Tiger Ag said:
Do you still feel like your daughter belongs to you or does she belong to her husband? Does the decision change depending on how long they've been married?
This line of thinking is what ended my first marriage.
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