He got a ticket on Friday going 57 in a 40.
I just got a Photo Enforcement notice with a lovely fee of $75.

Two tickets in less than 2 months for not obeying traffic laws.

I am by no means perfect and drive with a lead foot. This could easily have been me. However, this is his 4th ticket in 3 years. I, however, have not had a ticket in about 10 years. I'm sure I'll get one tomorrow though.

Tell me the level of pissed I'm allowed to be before becoming a nagging wife.

Thanks and gig'em.

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Make him a sammich and quit reading his mail.

Zero. He is a grown man who presumably contributes financially.

Take it easy on him, maybe get a couple nice dates out of it.

Ok. Alright. I see your point.

However, he is also potentially contributing to higher insurance rates. That money could be spent on hookers and blow.

He's not making you pay for it, ****ing Christ.

PIHB

I hear they give tickets for parking in unauthorized parking spaces.


Better watch yourself.

I see what you did there. I suck at life.

The red light one won't affect your insurance rates since its a photo one and not issued by an officer.

My husband got into two at fault accidents in six months. I was very frustrated, but he didn't do it on purpose. Getting mad about it isn't going to do anything

By the way, he just got home and I did not yell. I asked "How many of these do you get to receive before I'm allowed to be hella pissed?"

Good point jamo! Many thanks.

Smooches and puppy dog kisses to you all mf'ers!

women like you are the ones who frighten us from marriage, when we see how miserable you make our friends whom you tricked into getting married

El Tigre, I recently had an opening in my Sancho listings. Can I sex you?

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I asked "How many of these do you get to receive before I'm allowed to be hella pissed?"

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this is something I would have said, so I'm curious as to the response????

probably

Well, I was giving him a mischievous grin the minute he walked in. So after I said that, he just started smiling sheepishly. Then he kissed me and used the classic redirection "How do you know I was driving!?"

Sancha was driving

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El Tigre, I recently had an opening in my Sancho listings.

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My wife would lose her **** if I did that.

Of course, she spends an inordinate amount of time in the passenger seat making trenchant observations about my driving.

57 in a 40 is a LOT. You can be mad at him for being dumbarse.

It was late, dark, and a small town. We don't usually drive in that area at night. We didn't see the cop until they went Bad Boys on us. I had just mentioned to be careful with his driving before we got pulled over.

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and a small town.

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Even more reason to not speed dontcha think?

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My husband got into two at fault accidents in six months. I was very frustrated, but he didn't do it on purpose. Getting mad about it isn't going to do anything

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Yeah. Of course he didn't do it on purpose. That's why it is an "accident".

But not doing it on purpose doesn't really change the fact that a couple of cars are screwed up. Hopefully nobody was injured.

I would be angrier at my spouse parking on the painted area between two handicapped spots.

You shut your filthy mouth, Tanya!!!

I think the fact that you still use the word 'hella' automatically means you have no grounds for yelling at your husband, is this still 2003?

Go easy on the guy and be thankful he puts up with you.

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Shut the F Up. Fix food. Clean. Wash and fold clothes. Bring Beer. Or else.

That is all you need to know. You are allowed to be mad at yourself for receiving a black eye. You are encouraged to avoid this by following the above recommendations.

Sancho potential here. I can apply within.

Nm

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Well, I was giving him a mischievous grin the minute he walked in. So after I said that, he just started smiling sheepishly. Then he kissed me and used the classic redirection "How do you know I was driving!?"

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Valid point!! I got one of the in the mail one time in CS. I watched the video looked at the time stamp, and was in denial about the whole ordeal. A little while later it clicked that I was at the bowling alley with my drinking team and that was my SO leaving work in my truck running the light on the way to come hang out with us. I don't remember why she had my truck, but she was perfectly content letting me believe I had done it, when it was her!

Statistically speaking, men are more likely to speed and get into accidents when stressed out. You must redouble your efforts to lower his stress levels.