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I don't care how much you have tried and been shat on, I can't believe his dad has given up trying. Unreal
hate to give you a dose of reality.......once your kid turns 18 years all you can do is offer advice and hope the kid takes it. Other than that there is nothing one can do. It is a very helpless feeling.
I've had a dose of that reality. I've had to work through a similar situation with one of mine ... never really 'gave up,' but realized at a certain point this was well out of my control. Had to stop bailing him out of jams and out of jail. Had to protect the rest of my family. I kept on praying, attended AA and NA meetings with him, visited him in prison, was there for him to call me and listen, was there to offer advice when asked, and prayed some more. But never gave up. Mine is making progress, but only after hitting the bottom and the desire for help overwhelmed his other desires. The journey is not over, but he's been clean/sober for two years. He's involved in a Christian outreach program and working with others ... and I keep praying. God is gracious & very good.