Not to pick on any above, because they speak from admitted and obvious ignorance of the Catholic faith, but there is absolutely nothing "dictatorial" in Catholic dogma.
There is also 0.0000% chance the Church will ever- now, next year, or 5,000 years from now reverse its teaching on contraception, abortion, marriage, "women priests" (which is like saying "pregnant men") or any other dogmatic teaching.
Why? Because the Church is the body of Christ, and Christ himself pronounced that the Holy Spirit would guide it in all things and would be with it until the end of time, and those "who hear you, hear me". and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.
The Church has NEVER ONCE in 2,000 years reversed any dogmatic teaching, and it never will. do you think it just coincidence that the Church is the only continuous, surviving institution today since the time Christ founded it? or that since the 1930s when almost all Christian faiths held the same beliefs on contraception, abortion, marriage- only the Catholic church remains unchangec in its Teaching?
you will wait a long time if you are waiting for the Church to "get with the times". Until Christ returns or until you meet Christ himself and can understand why his Church never changed its teaching- despite centuries of rogues, miscreants, and grave sinners that held positions of human power in the Church at all levels.
Because Christ has preserved his bride as he promised, despite mankinds every attempt to destroy it within and without.
God bless all. Christ's Peace.