There are a couple of previous threads on Maui course recommendations, and a few posters mention the Wailea courses. I haven;t played those so I can't suggest much there.
But one thing I post just about on every one (and probably get ignored most of the time), is to take the ferry across to Lanai and play The Challenge. It is connected to the Four Seasons Hotel over there, and is what I would call a perfect compliment or 1-2 punch with Kapalua.
You can even make it a day trip with the wife - when I went over we left in the morning and had breakfast at the Blue Ginger Cafe, and spent time checking out Lanai City before the round. It may sound like an inconvenience compared to just going to the Wailea courses you're close to, but I think it will make for a much better experience based on what I've read about the Wailea courses.