Phil Garner said:
HECUBUS said:
No dout. Our kid has no interest in that path. He is entitled, or in dad speech likely to walk away when the fun stops. I would support his choice either way.
He's got a 6.0 60, 950 batting average and 105 mph fastball in academics. Baseball is just for fun.
Can't go wrong when academics are first. There's way more academic scholarship money out there than baseball scholarship money.
Academics are first with my son, too. He's ranked #4 in his class of 270+, and scored a 1350 on his PSAT this fall. He's well on his way to being able to go to A&M if he chooses, and hopefully he's on his way to getting some academic scholarship money.
His dream is to play college baseball. My wife and I have pressed him several times to make sure that his dream is HIS, and that he's not playing for us or trying to meet our expectations. We've always been very careful about how we position our hopes for him.
My wife and my son had a long talk Saturday night, and he broke down with her and vented his frustrations. He sees what's happening and he doesn't like it. His reaction is to hope to get moved down to JV so he can get playing time and reps. That's actually a logical reaction, but as a Dad, I keep encouraging him to speak up for himself and ask the coach how he can earn playing time at catcher - or at least earn a chance to compete.
I want this to be a life-lesson for him that as a young man, he can stand up for himself and he needs to learn how to have adult conversations with his coaches. If he is going to get recruited like he wants to, he's going to have to have adult conversations with college coaches and sell himself and his skill set. This is his first opportunity to practice that, but I also understand that as a young 15 year old sophomore, it's a pretty intimidating thing to do. I will keep encouraging him and trying to build up his confidence to take action. I feel like that's all I can do as a Dad.