schwack schwack said:
I figure they last thru high school labs + we like the sheen and color.
Pros seem to be many - cons? Maybe has to be mineral oiled?
Semi long post so bear with me.
We just installed soapstone and we love it. Is it perfect? No. But no stone gives you everything you want.
We got the look we wanted + we love the fact that it doesnt stain, citrus etc are safe on it, and we can set hot pans, etc direct without concern.
It does in fact scratch easy but small scratches can be fixed with oil / wax and bigger can be resolved by sanding.
As for mineral oil, we did that at first and we did not like the results at all. Counters looked oily and too shiny even after several days of drying. I bought several strong cleaners and eventually got it all off and then we used this product:
https://www.realmilkpaint.com/shop/waxes/soapstone/?attribute_pa_size=16-oz&gclid=Cj0KCQiAyracBhDoARIsACGFcS5P6X1F3MOyIN0igsFhNz4-l370_mQRD_mXB0NSDfCYGPPzjGkpWUsaAlwbEALw_wcBThe application / curing process is time consuming but you don't have to do it often at all vs mineral oil. We did 1 application about 6 months ago and everything looks great still. I MAY do another coat next week as we will be gone for 1 full week and may take advantage of the cure time and just give the counters a little extra darkness and make them pretty before Xmas.
Here is our kitchen.

One other little note...if you go this route...do not let the fabricator do anything to the soapstone (any sort of protecting coats, oil, etc). They will mess it up. All you want is "untouched" soapstone for you to then do the application of wax, etc. The fabricators won't do it as well as you will. They will rush it.
Happy to answer questions. We get a lot of compliments. While its not an uncommon stone its also not very common so people are always intrigued when they come in. Classic look but not the same white carerra look that 90% of homes go for.