We cannot tell whether you are being difficult or not. And even if you are, they are required to put the work in place in a satisfactory manner.
I do agree with Schmellba99 regarding how a residential contractor is going to react a lot of times. With the market how it is, you are going to struggle to find good work at a fair price. That goes for you, and for contractors looking for labor. Thus the poor quality and the delays. All that being said, if a customer is difficult for a contractor to deal with, that guy's needs are going to be pushed to the bottom of the priority list. He figures, if he's going to make someone mad, it might as well be the guy that he doesn't like. Once again, this could be the case from owner to GC or with GC to subcontractor. It isn't necessarily right, but its human nature. That's why the means by which an issue is resolved sometimes plays a factor in how issues get dealt with down the road.
I doubt you are being difficult, its probably more of a sign of the market right now and the labor gap.
I do agree with Schmellba99 regarding how a residential contractor is going to react a lot of times. With the market how it is, you are going to struggle to find good work at a fair price. That goes for you, and for contractors looking for labor. Thus the poor quality and the delays. All that being said, if a customer is difficult for a contractor to deal with, that guy's needs are going to be pushed to the bottom of the priority list. He figures, if he's going to make someone mad, it might as well be the guy that he doesn't like. Once again, this could be the case from owner to GC or with GC to subcontractor. It isn't necessarily right, but its human nature. That's why the means by which an issue is resolved sometimes plays a factor in how issues get dealt with down the road.
I doubt you are being difficult, its probably more of a sign of the market right now and the labor gap.