Post visit update:
Meat U Anywhere BBQ - Really great rec!
Big Fish - Fantastic! The best fried calamari I can remember. Also, good fish and chips with hush puppies.
Riverwalk Cantina (In Gaylord) - Okay and expensive.
Overall, I suggest leaving the Gaylord for your dining options.
Downtown Grapevine - The lights and decorations are perfect. Really great experience.
Gaylord:
ICE - pretty cool seeing the ice sculptures and letting kids experience 9 degrees
Ice Skating - Went Friday afternoon and practically had it to ourselves.
Snow Tubing - Again went Friday afternoon and kids could go as many times as they wanted with no line.
The dcor is out of the world amazing. It's definitely a good experience for this time of year.
Thanks again for all the recs...And maybe next time I'll include a stop at Perry's and Del Frisco's