"Baseball, basketball, and soccer are all year round. The kids dropping out are probably not cut out to make it as professionals anyways. What does "embrace us culture" mean, you seem to think it just means playing your sport at high school."
Finally getting around to responding, several others posted as well, commenting below on several.
Virtually every sport has an off season with exception of soccer. Yes, you can play year round in those sports but in the fall generally are considered off season to football. Youth club teams requires year long commitments, not season to season like other sports. This creates challenges to kids / parents at a young age.
To deaddb03 point if they want to focus on fixing something, they should focus on fixing the college system for scholarships. That's what drives participation in the US as they get older. I guess Title IX has killed that forever. Club teams tell kids to quit playing or their HS teams, yea the coach sucks sometimes, but you cause a kid to decided between being part of US HS culture or something else.
Part of why my kid quite soccer is that it is "cooler" which is part of soccer's cultural issue that still has not changed. Keep down the path of embracing Euro, watch it become even less "cooler".
Keep in mind, I played soccer year round, I want to see it succeed. I would have thought that US soccer would be so much further along. Very disappointing in what we see last year into this year, pretty mad about it.
My youngest (7th) just quit as well, high level club team (State Level), burned out. He's going to go play "rich white sport" lacrosse with all his buddies. The year long commitment, constant conflicts with playing other sports or having to play two at the same time, he had enough.
My kids are not special that they would have played at the US level. But, I have seen VERY good to special athletes drop out through the years because of the year long commitment. They were not ready to stop other sports and it pretty much forced their hand. I know another kid, my oldest sage that made ODP, his dad was part of US system back in the day. Yet, his kid quite soccer for basketball. I know every kid is different, but I keep seeing it.
In summary, the true soccer pool in the US is very small overall culturally isolated to only the east coast, spotty elsewhere. US Soccer is missing out on kids, don't see it changing ever at this point.
note - the move to go to calendar year was another very poor euro decision IMO. All it did was break kids up between grades, part this contributed my youngest quitting. He plays with only a couple kids his age as well as in school.
The School sports dynamic doesn't exist in England, don't know about other countries. This straight from my kids club coach (British).
I don't see anything changing to address above, maybe cant be changed. All i hear is we have to do it more like Europe.
To point above. What is the US identity, outside of doing it like Europe. There is no identity. Seems clear on the way the team plays. They don't play with any identity at all. Frustrating team group (back to last year) to watch and cheer for. No spirit or emotion, no leadership.