As far as I can tell from seeing this argument many, many times...Mexicans thinks its ok because they arent screaming the equivalent of the word "f****t!" at anybody, but its actually "only" something more like the way somebody would use "p***y" to call a dude a little b***h, or a whiner or whatever. The problem where this breaks down is that there would be real universal outrage if somebody did that as well. Imagine, if like Fenway park started screaming "P***y!" in unison every time a Yankees pitcher delivered a pitch and it was audible over all broadcasts. There would be a ****storm about that even absent of overt homophobia (which even then, calling a dude a p***y, DOES still have some of that in there, btw)