BillgoCU said:
Three thoughts
1. Are you telling me there isn't a single guy at Vandy that can't outkick her?
2. If she were to get hit I'd be legitimately worried about her.
3. Just putting one woman in a group of guys instantly changes the dynamic, no matter where it is. Focus changes, the way you talk to one another changes, it all changes.
1. Possibly not. Certainly not with consistency and accuracy, when the pressure is on. Those are skills honed over tens of thousands of reps... not hopping down out of the stands having never kicked since freshman year in HS.
2. As mentioned earlier, I would be no more worried for her than some of the other kickers. Pads are designed for a reason. If she gets hurt, I can PROMISE you she won't blame it on "the boys playing too rough". She knows the risks, just like every other player. She is an athlete, and I would bet she can take more of a hit than 90% of the posters on this forum.
3. I agree with this partially. It does change some dynamics. But focus, really? Are men really THAT weak, that a girl standing around in full pads (with a different group than 90% of the team) causes them to loose focus??? If a girl being around distracts the guys during a game, they are focused on the wrong things anyways. Cheerleaders don't seem to be a catastrophic problem.
And why would a girl being around change the way they talk? If the insinuation is that what they are talking about isn't appropriate- well, it's inappropriate regardless of who is around to hear it. None of that "locker room talk" contributes to the actual game play anyway. So, grow up, be a real man, get your job done the right way. These guys will have to work around women someday- time to leave that sophomoric BS behind. We need to quit making concessions and excuses for guys being immature *****s. Our society needs REAL men and women more than ever right now.
If I have interpreted any of your points wrongly, forgive me. That is just how they read for me.
I say let her play. There is no women's version of this sport for her to compete in. If she wants to test herself on this field, and can earn the spot in the coach's and team's eyes, I say bring it on! I hope she kicks a game winner.