GeorgePlimpton said:
hangman said:
The sad part is he probably would be a pretty good NFL quarterback if he hadn't played for the terrible Cleveland Browns.
Blaming the Browns is something out of 2015. By this point it should be very clear that he has some problems, and the idea that he would've been successful elsewhere is grasping at straws.
Frankly, I'm not sure why people on this board give a **** about whether he plays football again. We should be hoping only for him to get his life right and get away from these issues he's had the last several years. He's battling real demons and wistfully talking about whether he can play football again seems pretty trivial at this point. This is much bigger than playing a sport anymore.
What is "wrong" with his life? Not your opinion or some moral standard you have set for yourself (and obviously set for others) but what about Johnny's life is bad?
What issues has he had? Not issues that you have with the way he lives, but real issues? He has one domestic altercation with a BSC woman. And the jury is still out (based on the limited information we have) about which one of them instigated the incident.
He isn't going around hurting people that you know of. He isn't embezzeling millions of dollars from investors. He isn't creating ponzi schemes like Madoff or lying to the SEC, the American people, or his investors like Arthur Andersen or Enron.
He just decided he didn't want to play a game you think is amazing. He drinks and does drugs and that really doesn't hurt anyone. It is his life to live and he doesn't need you telling him that he has "issues" to solve or that he is living his life "wrong".
I wouldn't live my life the way he does. And I would have loved to have his talent and ability. But what I want for my life has absolutely no bearing on what he wants for his life.
No, it is a too common attitude, especially with the advent of the internet, to project your values and morals on others in a display of normative hubris.
It is the height of arrogance to base the value of others on your own character or moral standard.