colonists everywhere resented the mother country-----consider India, all of the Americas, most of Africa.
Local elites think they can do a lot better if they are running the show rather than some whiney noble in London, etc.
We think we can do things better in Texas than the elites in DC.
Most Mexicans don't much care for the heavy hand of DF.
George Washington applied for a commission in the Brit army and did not get it. He later made them pay.
They had a lot of grievances that don't get discussed much. For example, there is a place in the Declaration of Independence where they complain about the Brits whipping up the redsticks against them. This was easy to do because the colonists were constantly trying to wedge their way into lands the Injuns lived in and the Brits resisted the attempts in a bid to keep the natives pacified.
When the Brits were gone the removal of the tribes began
Lots of other grievances
Taxation with representation is a lot worse than taxation without because of the local elites' love for having the government pay for the internal improvements so touted by Henry Clay and his addled worshipper, Abe the railroad lawyer Lincoln.