My wife and I promised to always be honest with each other when it comes to fitness and how we look naked.
Well, I need to tell her that she's getting a little squishy (need to think of an other term) and has no tone. I do get annoyed because we have a fully stocked home gym and a 46" TV to do her videos if she wants and she has worked out twice in 1.5 years. I know I don't look as good as I did when we meet 9 years ago, but I lift 4 days a week and do bjj 3-5 (just started back up). She's turning 36 soon, I'm 38, and I'm worried it'll get worse. I know at 38 I have to keep the momentum going because it's hard to start from scratch later in life.
I do find her attractive still, but at times I'm like ummm.. Women do have it easier because they can look good with "curves" compared to guys, but it just boils downs to I want her to try. We do have 2 year old, but she doesn't work and could easily knock out a workout during her nap 3 times a week. Or, she could get up early (at times gets up near 9 with my daughter) while I get up at either 4 or 430 AM to get the w/o in before work.
So obviously I'm annoyed, how do I best approach this?
Well, I need to tell her that she's getting a little squishy (need to think of an other term) and has no tone. I do get annoyed because we have a fully stocked home gym and a 46" TV to do her videos if she wants and she has worked out twice in 1.5 years. I know I don't look as good as I did when we meet 9 years ago, but I lift 4 days a week and do bjj 3-5 (just started back up). She's turning 36 soon, I'm 38, and I'm worried it'll get worse. I know at 38 I have to keep the momentum going because it's hard to start from scratch later in life.
I do find her attractive still, but at times I'm like ummm.. Women do have it easier because they can look good with "curves" compared to guys, but it just boils downs to I want her to try. We do have 2 year old, but she doesn't work and could easily knock out a workout during her nap 3 times a week. Or, she could get up early (at times gets up near 9 with my daughter) while I get up at either 4 or 430 AM to get the w/o in before work.
So obviously I'm annoyed, how do I best approach this?