austinag1997 said:
BoDog said:
Two best friends are both successful attorneys. Upper 40s. Both divorced. Weird relationships with their kids that they really never saw grow up. Made a ton of money but both really hate their careers.
Wealth earning years vs. time with family is always a challenge. Making $ is really just to create time with family.
Is it? One of the most memorable experiences in my career was having a Senior Vice President of a fortune 25 company tell our group, the biggest regret in his career was where his relationship was with his kids.
It's a hard line to rise up, make the money and then try to turn that part of life off while spending time with family. When you get high enough, it will creep into all facets of your life.
We can take that big expensive vacation, but do you bring the work laptop, check messages/emails, take a call if there's a "work fire"? Been there, done that.
Edit to add, just went through a re-org and got put in a position with no direct reports(after having). This stuff has been on the mind a lot lately.