If it matters - Here's our update.
Choosing between Mines, VTech and A&M. Nice scholarship offer at Mines, Tiny one from A&M and nothing from VT. My oldest goes out of state and my second has seen and heard about the great experience. At some level he was definitely interested in that adventure.
We toured A&M and informally visited the other 2. Mines was first and pretty impressive (to an engineer). Did spend an hour with a Calc 1 prof who agreed to meet us and describe what life looks like there. Started out as the leader and was firmly there after the visit.
Then visited A&M. Zachary is a showcase and impressed him quite a bit. He was reminded how friendly the campus is and the fact that many kids walked around without masks. One thing he noticed was that at Mines there were no kids working together studying, zooming in class, sitting in large groups. All individuals. Iin the MSC and Zachary most kids were with someone else doing those things. When we walked past Kyle he looked up and said quietly "I know what happens in there" He should - he's been going to games since he was one.
Last was VT. Beautiful campus, buildings and location. The engineering school is nice but not Zachary nice. They do have a Rolls Royce Trent 1000 jet engine hanging in the building. My son - "One of the most beautiful things I've ever seen". Mask nazis everywhere. Fines in town for not wearing masks outdoors. On campus kids were allowed to play basketball without masks but had to wear them for volleyball. He met an RA that told him that classes should be back in person in the fall but not Gen Ed or large classes because you can't distance 100 people in an auditorium.
In the end, we have an Aggie!
Why? According to him "I decided I don't want to miss out on big time sports." "Zachary blows you away." "At Mines I'd never get to hang with people that WEREN'T engineers". "Loved most things about VT and they have the athletics but there's no way I'm risking taking online classes. Plus the mask rules are out of control and we all know that's not going away anytime soon." "Also didn't like how everyone they talked to (students) defend the masking."
His mom and I are proud ecstatic and he was grateful to us for taking the time and money to let him visit these schools. In the beginning it was Mines, VT, A&M. In the end, the order flipped completely and the distance between A&M and VT was huge to him.