FAT SEXY said:
Why would a "fair and just God" have his creation be so unequal?
Why do some people hit the genetic lottery and have a life seemingly on easy mode, while others are thrust into this world with learning defects and little to no familial support?
We have a perfect creation in Genesis 1. Once sin enters the world all creation is cursed and broken. Our bodies are cursed, our relationships are broken, the very ground we walk on is cursed. Everything you have described and observed above, I believe is a result of the curse.
Does God intend on removing the curse? Yes.
Then he showed me a river of the water of life, clear as crystal, coming from the throne of God and of the Lamb, 2 in the middle of its street. On either side of the river was the tree of life, bearing twelve kinds of fruit, yielding its fruit every month; and the leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations. 3 There will no longer be any curse; and the throne of God and of the Lamb will be in it, and His bond-servants will serve Him; 4 they will see His face, Rev. 22
3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them, 4 and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away."
5 And He who sits on the throne said, "Behold, I am making all things new." And He *said, "Write, for these words are faithful and true." Rev 21.
Is God Fair and is God Just are 2 different questions with 2 different answers.
I would answer the first question with God is not fair in the way you have described fairness. Read Matthew 20:1-15
13 But he answered and said to one of them, 'Friend, I am doing you no wrong; did you not agree with me for a denarius? 14 Take what is yours and go, but I wish to give to this last man the same as to you. 15 Is it not lawful for me to do what I wish with what is my own? Or is your eye envious because I am generous?'
The greatest act of unfairness is that innocent Jesus would die for all of your sins and my sins and suffer the wrath of God that we deserve.