The sum of this thread is that Methodism, like most mainstream Protestantism is screwed: it simply doesn't stand for anything except for an amorphous "do good social things" theology. Catholicism and Orthodoxy retain some appeal because despite papal missteps and blessing of pogroms (Russia, Serbia) by priests, both retain some elements of mysticism.
It wasn't always that way. Methodism during the 2nd Great Awakening was described as boiling hot religion where penitents would flood brush arbor altars during revivals and camp meetings under the unction of the Holy Spirit. That loss of spiritual urgency led to Methodism's descendant: Pentecostalism which has the highest growth rate in Christianity. If their theology is imprecise ( and in the main Pentecostal denominations it is not) the genuineness of seeking God is certainly clear. Methodism has only its clerical leaders to blame for its rapid decline.
“If you’re going to have crime it should at least be organized crime”
-Havelock Vetinari