So I tackled the verse which is probably the most difficult to debate as a Christian universalist.
Anyone willing to tackle the more Universalist verses I posted?
My observation is that those who believe in eternal, conscious hell sure do not seem to let it bother them like it does me.
How do you believe in that doctrine and sleep knowing you could potentially save a relative or stranger from hell? How can you work and not spend every waking hour keeping people from the worst thing that could happen to them?
And what if you tell them and they do not believe like in the example posted above? Would it be better if you had not told them at all as far as their eternal destiny?
How do you bring a child in the world with the thought they could be eternally tortured which would be much worse than ever being born?
How can a pastor preach about everyone going to hell and then go eat a nice lunch, watch a NFL game, and take a nap?
Either ECT believers are Calvinists and believe they have no affect on who is being saved, or they ignore what they are reading. And hearing. I almost went crazy trying to figure this out. Tried to become an atheist or agnostic which did not work at relieving my anxiety. Could not sleep or find peace. And no pastor could help me. Christian ECT friends would re affirm their belief in ECT hell and do nothing. Walking around and living with people they believed were going to an eternal concentration camp and doing nothing, I did not get it.
Finally found a website called Tentmaker.org, a Christian universalist site. Started reading and have never looked back. Now I am at peace about 90% of the time due to my ability to trust Jesus and rest in Him. And I never realized there were so many other people who had struggled like me with this. Countless stories of suicide attempts(thanks Jonathan Edwards), hospitalizations for depression/anxiety, social withdrawal, etc. based upon being raised in a "hellfire and brimstone" church and theology.
So maybe it is just me. All I know is that since I have thought like this, I have shared my faith more, prayed with patients more, completely changed my mindset. I simply could not tolerate the idea of an ECT hell. And it really bothered me that others were able to have an ECT belief and yet not let the fate of others bother them constantly. And get to the point where I was. In fact, some seemed to almost enjoy the fact that they were "saved" and others were not.
So that is my story. And hopefully none of y'all will go through what I did. Fortunately, I have(and still do) have a loving and very strong in her faith wife who got me through that horrible time of my life.
And edited to add, when I went through this, I started to read the Bible all the time. And I discovered that there were a lot more Universalist verses than I thought. I also read and re read Paul's sermon on Mars Hill. And actually all the sermons in the NT. Except for the latter part of the Sermon on the Mount(and I think that Jesus was talking about the Roman destruction of Jerusalem and the Temple in 70 AD)there is no "turn and burn". There is no altar call. There is no sinner's prayer. In fact, evangelism for the last 200 years in the US is nothing like the NT evangelism. It is almost like America created their own version of an evangelical system based on how many people you can "save". And "once saved, always saved". And revivals. And tent meetings. And altar calls. And the sinner prayer. And what would happen if you die tonight? And I can find none of that in the Bible.
But I sure found drinking and dancing in the Bible. And from my reading the only folks Jesus seemed to get mad at were religious leaders. Especially judgemental ones.
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