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Of course you can find plenty of it, but the societal reactions to such behavior was why there was so much less of it in those idyllic times than in modern times. Of course bad things still happened, but we werent numb to them nor celebratory of them.
I dont know how to respond to the rest of your post, blood family is absolutely supposed to matter to Christians, with parents have defined obligations to their children and their spouse that they dont have with others.
I cant make sense of almost your entire post.
Allow me to respond in two posts, because the ideas are very different. First, I would flatly disagree that any of the "unfamily-like" behaviors such as fornication, adultery, divorce, disavowing of relatives and the like were at any time in history less common than any other time. I would agree that at some times in history all of these things carried more stigma than other times, probably peaking with Victorian England. But I would also say that even during times of increased stigma the rate of these behaviors was basically unchanged. I can't think of any times among the ancient Egyptians, Jews, Greeks, Romans, medieval Islam or Europe, Renaissance Europe, modern Europe, ancient or medieval India, China or Japan that fits the ideal espoused. That's about the extant of my shallow historical knowledge, so I may be missing something somewhere else.
Really, the only time of supreme familial piety that comes to mind for me is the US Great Depression. I remember my grandfather telling me stories of an extended family of a dozen people living in one house. This was due to the fact that usually only one or two of those people had jobs, and only one actually owned a home. This wasn't so much familial piety as much as economic necessity, and the situation quickly changed when times weren't so bad.
To be more precise in my speech, the idea of two people getting married, loving each other (or at minimum enjoying each other's company), having children, staying together until death, and staying faithful their entire lives has always been the exception and has never been the rule. So while that may certainly be the family ideal, it doesn't make any sense to point to a single concept, like capitalism or communism, as ruining some situation that never existed anyway. It's not like we went from 99% of people living the above perfect scenario down to 25% because of capitalism or what have you. I'd say if that number is 25% now, it's been 25% pretty much throughout human history. Though I'd still say the actual number of lifelong faithful marriages would be less than that, unless you count the fact that people living longer makes for less young widows.
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