What are y'all's thoughts on end of life care. If your family member (or yourself) has a poor prognosis and can't make a decision for themselves, what determines how aggressive you're going to be with treatment? If the doctors say that the chances of meaningful recovery are slim, or that they look like they are in a lot of discomfort, and they recommend comfort care or hospice, do you trust their assessment?
Personally I think age is a big factor. Obviously the younger someone is the more aggressive I'd be with their treatment, as they have a higher likelihood of recovery and having meaningful years left. Also the disease they are afflicted with, an elderly person can appear very sick but recover quickly from a pneumonia with some antibiotics. Conversly they can also go downhill very quickly. What if you get a poor prognosis, and you put someone on comfort care, and they end up living for 3-4 days, not getting any food/water. Would you second guess your decision, even if the prognosis is poor?
Of course there's no one size fits all. I'm kind of just thinking. I also recommend everyone watch Extremis on Netflix. It's only about 20 minutes. But I think it's a good quick glimpse into what these decisions entail for the family as well as the patient, and the consequences of those decisions on both.
Personally I think age is a big factor. Obviously the younger someone is the more aggressive I'd be with their treatment, as they have a higher likelihood of recovery and having meaningful years left. Also the disease they are afflicted with, an elderly person can appear very sick but recover quickly from a pneumonia with some antibiotics. Conversly they can also go downhill very quickly. What if you get a poor prognosis, and you put someone on comfort care, and they end up living for 3-4 days, not getting any food/water. Would you second guess your decision, even if the prognosis is poor?
Of course there's no one size fits all. I'm kind of just thinking. I also recommend everyone watch Extremis on Netflix. It's only about 20 minutes. But I think it's a good quick glimpse into what these decisions entail for the family as well as the patient, and the consequences of those decisions on both.