A very interesting convo on this topic.
I believe there lies a fundamental that is not accepted across everyone though.
What is sex?
A simple question sure, but the implications are enormous. It is so easy to tie in all sorts of emotional connotations to it. Let's say you have a wife/husband of 20 years that you love without equal. Do y'all still call it sex? Do y'all make love? Do y'all ****?
Sex in itself is an act. Now what each individual holds special to that act is where all of the difference lies. In my eyes it is possible to have sex, make love, and ****. Each is fundamentally different to me and so the after effects are different as well. Every instance is different so umbrella statements just can't apply. i.e.
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Promiscuous women are terrible for long term relationships. They get to a point where they just want to be punished in bed and they have little self respect. What they turn to for "redemption" is a lust for power. Everything is a power struggle. Nobody plays mind games like an attractive woman who sleeps around. When they're done ****ing you they turn to ****ing you over. But this all leads to severe bondage in the end. It's definitely not liberating. Eventually they end up alone with their house cats. It's very sad.
from 7thGT.
This is such a fallacy that it is laughable.
What I will say has been measured is that women AND men who are victims of sexual abuse have a higher chance of leading to abnormal behavior and thoughts regarding sex. I would factor these victims as outliers to the whole however.
Another big part of this divide is the very real mental divide amongst generations. Within mine it is common to engage in pre-marital sex and even encouraged by most. By all standards I am "Promiscuous" myself and so are the majority of my friends. Both men and women. Sex can be a beautiful and emotional event to us. It can also be a nice stress reliever with absolutely no attachments whatsoever. Like a handshake.
So overall I am not really arguing against the original assertion, but against the fact that ALL cases are like that. Which is simply untrue.