Rome84 said:
Irish 2.0 said:
your bigger problem is their entitlement
Irish, no doubt too much entitlement but far from the biggest problem. You raised teenage girls?
Nope! But if I'm the one willing to foot the bill for them to get a four year education at a flagship school, they can sacrifice their feelings for four years in the same way I'd be sacrificing 50k/yr between the three of them.
I'm not one too tell someone how to raise their kids, but good God. If they can't appreciate the fact they're getting it better than 90% of others, for a free ride through school…that's an entitlement issue.
My conversation would be simple. They're almost 18. They're adults. If they want to enjoy the comforts of still being on mom and dad's dime while accessing four years of a tier 1 education….they can live in a freaking house together to save mom and dad 10s of thousands over the course of four years.
Sell it to them as a preservation of y'all's estate and their inheritance if you think it may go better. But I can promise you that if I told my parents (who graciously paid for my college too) I won't live with my brother to save them money, I'd have neither the house nor the education.
Of course it was for that. In what universe did you think it was okay to post a naked man spreading open his butt cheeks on our platform?
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