That she needs to work on her body?
Are you already regularly working out and have a gym membership? If yes, and she doesn't, you could casually bring it up to her next time they have some sort of deal going on like waiving initiation fees or whatever, "Hey the gym is currently letting people sign up for X deal, it would save a ton of money if you want to get in on it right now."cisgenderedAggie said:
That she needs to work on her body?
FDT 1999 said:
Just try to be real subtle about it so that you don't hurt her feelings.
Next time y'all roll into the Golden Corral for the Wednesday night buffet special, just nonchalantly bring it up. As she's heading for the chocolate fountain, ask her if she's ever thought about working in a salad or two, and see what she says.
Good luck!
Junkhead said:
"Hey, fatty. Put down the cake and go work out."
This.Moto Moto said:
would she say the same about you?
FIFYMooreTrucker said:This.Moto Moto said:
would she say the same about you?
And to answer your question, you don't. You might suggest that "WE need to start eating healthy" if you just really feel the need to get your ass kicked.
lotsofhp said:
I like to point out how hot other chicks are to her until she gets the point.
great advice, only if you have a sidepiece or no drive leftchiken said:
Withhold sex. If she wants it she has to work for it.
chiken said:
Withhold sex. If she wants it she has to work for it.
Ags4DaWin said:
First: what are you doing to take care of yourself. If you are coming to the bedroom with a beer belly then you zero room to talk unless she is seriously obese and u de worried about her health. The exception to this is if u are working 60 hours a week and bringing home bank so she can sit at home and eat bonbons and Pinterest all day.
Two: why are you feeling the need to tell her this? Are you no longer attracted to her? Does her appearance make it hard for you to be motivated sexually? Before approaching her you better have ur own **** and reasons straightened out because believe you me she is going to hammer at you to find that **** out and if you are unprepared ur ****ed.
Three; it depends on the situation. Are we talking she is getting obese or a pooch or has she gained ten pounds and you are a jackass?
Four: what are your expectations and are they reasonable?
If obese you need to discuss with her the ramifications of an unhealthy lifestyle and how it will affect the kids and how it affects you.
If you are no longer attracted to her ask yourself if it solely a weight thing. If it is solely a weight thing, you should be 100% honest with her. Open by telling her that you love her and will always love her. Tell her that right now her appearance is making it awfully hard for you to be passionate and date her like you feel like she deserves. Ask what you can do to help, if she needs help around the house or getting the kids up or to bed to get in some personal workout time.
Offer to do whatever she needs you to do so that she can be healthier and so that you can reestablish that romantic and passionate connection with her that is important to you.
If she is under a size 10 or under and you are asking this question though u are an asshat.