One of my ex girlfriends from high school has started a crowd funding deal to raise money for adoption of a child. Not sure their circumstances but this seems super tacky to me. They are at least selling shirts instead of just asking for straight cash but I don't think that's much better. I know it's expensive to do if you want a white American baby. I don't mind so much a gofundme or raffle tickets to help raise money for a family the suffered a tragedy but this is a choice. I wouldn't think people would ask for money for IVF and fertility treatments, would they? Am I over thinking this or is this indeed tacky?