Why do some girls like guys that are much older then themselves

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Jill
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when there are some great guys their own age?
Ervin Burrell
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Because I'm always "their age"
rhoswen
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because older men are better in bed and are more stable.
Caliber
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are you trying to say that some '07 guy that you like is dating a girl in highschool instead of you?
Jill
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Why would I like a loser who'd date a high school chick?
PhiAggie
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Ive often wondered this as well. Why do girls go for older guys when there are great guys their own age?
Ervin Burrell
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Because you're desperate...
KT_Ag08
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Guys like younger girls because they are easy. It is easy to play games with younger girls and convince them that you like them in order to get ass. Basically it is a misconception on younger girls' parts.


hth


<3 me.
Ervin Burrell
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yah...KT Ag speaks from experience...big baller he is...
russaggie
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$$$$$$$$$$$
rhoswen
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while that's true, there are girls like me who actively seek out older men.

I think men in the their mid to late 30s are perfect. But i'm 27, so it's really not that much older.
KT_Ag08
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High school was good stuff and high school girls love to come see college towns. What can I say...
Dre_00
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Don't most girls date guys who are at least a little bit older than them? I'm pretty sure that the same age thing is the exception, not the rule.
Cru
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"cause they stay the same age man"


sorry, I have nothing to say on this thread. I've only dated girls 3 yrs younger at the least and 1 year older at the most.
PhiAggie
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Cru goes for older women!
AlphaBean
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Maturity, stability, etc.

College age guys, well let's face it, it's hard to find one that has the same qualities as an older man. They're just not at that stage in their lives.
PatriotAg02
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I've always dated the same age or younger girls. The last two were 5 years and 3 years younger respectively. The 5 year one was dumb. 20 year olds don't know what they want, especially 20 year old girls.
PhiAggie
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Please! Maturity is growing up. Its something you choose to do. Its different than growing old.
bearamedic99
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It's evolution. Guys want younger and more fertile appearing women. Girls want mates who appear to have resources to support their young (more likely in older established mates).

I'll try to find the book title regarding this subject. Birdgirl is currently reading it.
KT_Ag08
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it's hard to find one that has the same qualities as an older man. They're just not at that stage in their lives.





No sh it. We are in college trying to get to that old, worn out, boring, 9-5, stage of our lives like older guys. Fu ckin' A doggie.
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The 5 year one was dumb. 20 year olds don't know what they want, especially 20 year old girls.



You say that like it's a bad thing.
PhiAggie
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So why would a younger woman go for an older guy for maturity? What does that say about herself?

At what age do you think guys "mature?"

[This message has been edited by PhiAggie (edited 1/9/2006 12:08a).]
Ervin Burrell
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stump dated a 5 year old?
AlphaBean
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Phi, most college aged guys have chosen NOT to be mature while most older guys have chosen to be mature.

I'll even let you claim yourself as an exception to the rule, because there are exceptions. But, them being exceptions means they are hard to find. If I were single, would I consider a college guy if he were mature enough, yes. But I wouldn't be willing to bet money that I'd have any luck finding one.
rhoswen
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it means i'd rather not waste my time training a 25 year old how to be good in bed.
AlphaBean
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There is no set age.
PatriotAg02
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I was 25, she was 20. It's simple arithmetic.
rhoswen
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no, but I don't like his implications.
KT_Ag08
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College is a guy's last chance to be immature before we settle down with you girls that drag us down and make us be "mature" and "good in bed". Newsflash: I get off every ****ing time so to me there is no such thing as "bad sex".
PatriotAg02
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I think I'm too mature. The younger girls don't find it as appealing when you are too mature for them.
Ervin Burrell
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PhiAggie
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Training a 25 yr old how to be good in bed? Thats retarded. Different people like different things. What one man/woman may enjoy, another may dislike. No one is going to magically know and start out the best sexual experience youve ever had. Thats why you learn what each other enjoys and perfect intimacy in time. I guess being good in bed is what really matters huh?

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Phi, most college aged guys have chosen NOT to be mature while most older guys have chosen to be mature.

I'll even let you claim yourself as an exception to the rule, because there are exceptions. But, them being exceptions means they are hard to find. If I were single, would I consider a college guy if he were mature enough, yes. But I wouldn't be willing to bet money that I'd have any luck finding one.



But thats what Im saying. I dont think you can really say "college age guys this" or "college age guys that," concerning this. It goes both ways. We have all met just as many women who are as shallow as my bathtub. Again there is a difference between growing up and growing old.

If this were the rule, then yes Id claim exception. But I dont think that it is necessarily. A 25 yr old is a 25 yr old, regardless of sex. I see how one would feel this way. However, you would never know unless you give them an opportunity. Learn who they are before defeating them based on a generalization.
AlphaBean
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Depends on the girl, stump.

Bottom line is EVERYBODY matures at a different rate and age, male or female. I happen to think I'm just slightly ahead of the curve for those my age. Therefore, I seek someone on the same level. I found him, you single people can keep on dealing with all that shiznit.
rhoswen
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of course it's not the most important thing.

But, for the most part, it IS the most important thing to a 25 year old male.
Ervin Burrell
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This thread has caught the ghey...I blame PhiAggie, stump, and KT Ag...
 
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