Pray....... for opportunities...and boldness

And even if you dont want to give out a tract, use one to familiarize yourself with the key points of the gospel, so, you can relate it naturally

Edit...another thought...if your church has folks that contact visitors, team up with someone experienced in gospel presentation, and learn through observing

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I guarantee you that most everyone you talk to has already heard the " good news."

what a guarantee...awesome

Personally, I've seen most opportunities come from simply engaging in daily conversation. It's amazing how my relationships have developed at my office over a few months of me being here by just asking questions.

Honestly, genuine interest and cultivating relationships will lead to opportunities.

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I think trying to witness better is missing the point. Try to br closer to God...the rest will take care of itself.

http://alookatthelife.blogspot.com/2008/10/lie-for-my-benefit-tell-truth-for-his.html

OP, my thoughts on my blog

Become Messianic and your Torah/biblical observance will be so obvious from the rest of the world (even Christianity) that almost everybody will ask you to witness to them without you even trying.

As I side note, I am a very introverted person myself. I generally prefer most people just leave me alone and I do unto them as I would have them do unto me. That doesn't make for great witnessing. For me, being Messianic forces witnessing just by your every day actions.

Turn on your television. Google "jesus," "christianity," or "bible." There are enough people spreading the word already. You probably live in Texas (given this forum) and so you should know just how prevalent christianity is. You will annoy fewer people and be more approachable if you leave the incessant jesus talk out of your conversational repertoire.

Russell reminds us of Jesus saying "blessed are you when you are hated for my name."
It will happen. You will run into those who will mock you and hate you. I had a friend who was a missionary in Yemen where the punishment would have been death. Yet do not let your mouth be silent! Blessed are you!

We should go out and serve. The best opportunities come from when you meet someone's need first.

Put stuff on your desk like the Bible, or some other Christian literature that you read at lunchtime. Those can be great conversation starters. And when the conversation at work turns to babes and booze, walk away and don't participate.

And you can always start your own website like Pro Sandy...

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By nature I am a somewhat quiet and relatively easy going guy. There are people in my life though, some close and some distant, to whom I want to share the good news of the gospel.

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Be honest with them. If they are going through a tough decision making process ask them if you could share a little advice and give them Biblically sound advice. You can do this without ever being obnoxious or in your face, and it shows the genuine concern you have for them. You don't even have to tell them where your advice is coming from.

It won't take long for people to notice the difference, in my office it didn't take two months for people to start coming to me for advice on various things either at work or in private.

As others have said, pray for opportunities to share the truth. You'd be amazed how often Christ's truth is the polar opposite of things done in the business world today, especially once you start paying attention. If you start advocating a biblical position and can present it thoroughly and honestly without using the Bible people will not be able to help but notice.

And remember, it isn't your job to convert people, the Holy Spirit does that. Your job is to be salt and light to your co-workers, friends, and family. Sometimes that may require sharing the gospel with them, but most of the time it doesn't.

My Sunday school class read a book recently that I think addresses this.

Get Real: Sharing Your Everyday Faith Every Day by John Leonard

I thought the second half was better than the first half, but his main thoughts are that being normal to people verses the stereotypical Ned Flanders is a better witness to the world. We can share with our neighbors, coworkers, society that we are not perfect, that we too hurt, and that is why we all need Jesus.

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I think it's best to try to know one's audience. Some people may be good with it and some people may be turned off by it.

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So they can burn in hell for eternity?

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At what point do you choose to respect the God given free will you think non believers have to not believe?

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When they take their last breath. Never give up, never.

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When they take their last breath. Never give up, never.

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So people are not free to be left alone?

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When they take their last breath. Never give up, never.

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Nope

I recently read a book THE QUIET that is about how our society treats extroverts and introverts. The thesis of the book is that we are prejudiced in favor of extroversion. Though a secular book it deals with questions like these.


To oversimplify, God may lead an extravert to remain silent in a situation, and lead an introvert to speak out. Whichever brings Him the most glory.

Paul explains why w do what we do, but we want all to be reconciled to God. He desires all to be saved.

11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience. 12 We are not commending ourselves to you again but giving you cause to boast about us, so that you may be able to answer those who boast about outward appearance and not about what is in the heart. 13 For if we are beside ourselves, it is for God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. 14 For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; 15 and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.

16 From now on, therefore, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we once regarded Christ according to the flesh, we regard him thus no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. 18 All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; 19 that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. 20 Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

2 Corinthians 5:11-21
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Corinthians+5%3A11-21

Fine, but at some point just leave me alone. I'm entitled to my personal life and space.

Ok, so if I haven't been respectable on this board, please let me know. I too sin and don't show love to others that I am called to show and instead use the gospel to hurt instead of heal.

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In meant to speak in general terms and not accuse you of anything. I certainly don't feel you are a disrespectful poster. Apologies if my post sounded accusatory.

I think, to the OPs comments about being a witness to his faith, respect is the key. I have no issue with someone sharing their faith or testifying or being a witness to their faith or whatever you want to call it. However, if your goal is to reach the non believer or 'wrong believer' and plant those seeds, then I think it is the decent thing to do to approach that person from a place of respect for them regardless of their beliefs. Gohomeleg's suggestion that prosthletyzing should be constant and against the will of the non believer until the day they die is, as Dr W put it, disturbing. If someone can't share their faith without being a bully, I think that's a problem.

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I'm usually inclined to welcome the concern for my soul shown by most Christians as being genuine and well intentioned, but misguided in my humble opinion. GHL's overconfidence that he is right, we are wrong, and that it should be acceptable for him to relentlessly berate those with the 'wrong' beliefs comes off sounding outright rotten and utterly disrespectful. Because I do not know GHL personally, I would like to leave an opportunity open for him to explain his position as something other than a manifestation of a narcissistic personality disorder prior to my judging his statements.

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Kurt, I don't berate and I don't hound people endlessly either. I do have a laundry list of people that I no longer witness to directly but I pray for. I will never give up praying for them. If you knew me personally I think narcissistic is the last thing you would judge me as.

I could write on endlessly about this but will let it go. I look forward to the possibility of meeting you some day and enjoying face to face conversation.

Hi Kurt. Needless to say I don't multi task well. I literally started reading bits of this in SFO to ORD to RDU to DFW. I'll try and do better. I would never disrespect your desire to or not to discuss any subject. I know that you've heard the gospel presented and are well versed in it. By glibly saying "nope" I meant that I would never give up on someone coming to know Christ through prayer. I failed in my delivery. Sorry about that. I hope you have a great week.